Point of No Return

What can I say? I am definitely a momma’s boy

The notion of “family” has been in my mind quite a bit lately.

While reading the recent three-part story by Point reporter Maria Counts on the rampant rise of heroin-use in our cozy community by the shore, I was ripped apart inside when...

Thursday, May 8, 2014 - 8:53am

Bobdozer heading west, and it’s a little sad

There is something absolutely gut-wrenching about having to say goodbye to someone you genuinely care about, and I’m certain most of you have had to go through this on more than one occasion.

Even though you might know in the back of your...

Thursday, May 1, 2014 - 8:44am

Bobdozer heading west, and it’s a little sad

There is something absolutely gut-wrenching about having to say goodbye to someone you genuinely care about, and I’m certain most of you have had to go through this on more than one occasion.

Even though you might know in the back of your...

Thursday, May 1, 2014 - 8:44am

Exciting journey, for sure, but still stupid

The notion of being a “stowaway” has intrigued me from the time I was a child.

There were times I would daydream about slipping onto a cruise ship without anyone noticing my arrival, hiding deep in the bowels of the ship’s engine room and...

Thursday, April 24, 2014 - 7:50am

Job-rankings should be a personal choice

CareerCast, a website that focuses on career advice and salary listings, recently examined 200 jobs that have the most employees in the nation, based on numbers acquired from the United States Department of Labor.

Their goal for this...

Thursday, April 17, 2014 - 10:38am

Enjoy every second of life while you still can

I’m a firm believer that no matter what we accomplish in life, or how many things we are able to acquire over the course of our lifetimes, one certainty awaits us all — we’re eventually going to run out of batteries.

Now, I’ve never...

Thursday, April 10, 2014 - 8:25am

Time to spring right into baseball season

Mondays have proven to be the bane of my existence over the years.

It typically starts with a half-asleep fistfight with my alarm clock, followed soon thereafter by a ceremonial half-stumble as I try to navigate myself past two sleeping...

Thursday, April 3, 2014 - 9:09am

The white flag is raised — winter beats me up

There’s an ominous line that is repeated often in the HBO show, “Game of Thrones,” that often sends shudders up and down the spines of the central characters whenever it is uttered.

“Winter is coming.”

Only, around these parts,...

Thursday, March 27, 2014 - 9:48am

One of state’s best columnists turns to a novel

We all have our basic routines in the morning, right?

For as long as I can remember, my first step every morning has been to grab the newspaper, skim through headlines until I find the stories that seize my attention and rip through them...

Thursday, March 20, 2014 - 7:34am

The real show at the Clayton was the Clayton, itself

When historians look back at this period in time they will credit us with being the “Age of Technology.”

Regardless of how far we advance with supercomputers and new creations we haven’t even considered yet, this era will forever be...

Thursday, March 13, 2014 - 11:21am

More years brings more experience, and new pain

There has been a little change in the air.

No, and I’m sorry to disappoint you, that statement has nothing to do with the winter coming to a close and warm air moving into our little oasis by the sea. I’m actually starting to believe this...

Thursday, March 6, 2014 - 9:07am

Stupidity seizes the day in this look at world crime

Emergency responders were the star of the show last Friday, as the Bethany-Fenwick Area Chamber of Commerce hosted the annual Joshua M. Freeman Valor Awards. This has always been my favorite event of the year, not only because I get fed, but...

Thursday, February 27, 2014 - 9:44am

Chasing the sun, after stressing over the chase

I raise the white flag.

I am officially surrendering to the almighty powers of a winter that has chilled my bones and caused more than its fair share of mayhem to our deadlines. You have defeated me with your snow and arctic blasts of wind...

Thursday, February 20, 2014 - 8:33am

Those we honor on Presidents Day will not expand

I was asked last weekend if I was going to write my obligatory “I hate Valentine’s Day” column this week. Naturally, that got the rusty wheels turning in my head.

For starters, I was a little put out by the notion that I’m that...

Thursday, February 13, 2014 - 8:43am

It’s been an emotional and rewarding decade

“Look, kids,” my father would say to a car full of weary travelers. “It’s the totem pole.”

And just like that, Mad Libs publications got thrown on the floor of the back seat, and the cranky passengers would perk up to see it for ourselves...

Thursday, February 6, 2014 - 11:08am

Softball should be a priority for State’s efforts

I’ve come to the stark realization that there are two things that find me, no matter where I happen to be in life, or what I happen to be doing at any given moment.

The first is my friend, Rodney. No matter where I have moved to over the...

Thursday, January 30, 2014 - 9:07am

Still room for improvement in state’s gaming

For those of us who truly love playing poker, April 15, 2011, was a very dark day.

Dubbed as “Black Friday” by the general poker community, federal regulators came in under the cloak of the Illegal Gambling Business Act of 1955 and the...

Thursday, January 23, 2014 - 9:12am

With Ravens out, I’m all about the Seahawks

Have you ever really wanted something bad for somebody else, even if, on the surface, it doesn’t look like that big of a deal in the first place?

I’m not talking about wishing somebody you love a happy life on his or her wedding day, or...

Wednesday, January 15, 2014 - 1:20pm

When is cold too cold? Well, this week was

Welcome, everybody, to 2014!

And put on a hat. And some gloves. And a scarf. And maybe drape a woolly mammoth or something over your shoulders.

This week was cold. I don’t mean cold like, “Oh, man. I better go start up my car and...

Wednesday, January 8, 2014 - 2:27pm

It’s a whole new year, which means new goals

Take a look around you. See how everybody is smiling or looking particularly enthusiastic about the day? See how people’s shoulders look a little higher, and how they don’t quite look like they’ve been beaten about the head by a cement-mixer with...

Thursday, January 2, 2014 - 6:37am

Another year of change now in the rearview

It’s hard to believe that our little paper will turn 10 years old in about a month.

There are times when I sit back and think about our journey here at the Coastal Point, and it seems like only yesterday Susan Lyons and I were meeting at...

Thursday, December 26, 2013 - 8:34am

Did you really think you would hit the lottery?

I succumbed.

Like many of you out there, I broke down under the illusion of $636 million and bought my way into the Mega Millions drawing on Tuesday night — knowing in my mind that winning was a near-statistical impossibility, but feeling...

Thursday, December 19, 2013 - 7:18am

Fly me to the ... well, Mars. Yeah, fly me there

As an individual who carries a sharp tongue and very little comprehension of what is and what isn’t acceptable to say to others, I have been told to go to various places throughout my lifetime.

Those directions typically lead to flying a...

Thursday, December 12, 2013 - 8:47am

Remember those away from family this year

Well, Thanksgiving unofficially kicked off the month of overeating, overbuying, overworrying and oversaturation of the holiday season. The next four weeks is a hectic sprint, as parties, shopping, planning and swallowing handfuls of Tums at a...

Thursday, December 5, 2013 - 7:41am

It’s time to take stock and truly be thankful

Do me a favor, and hold off on the Christmas carols and Hanukkah traditions for a minute. Just take a deep breath and put the shopping list in a drawer, and relax on all thoughts on how you are going to get Aunt Mildred here from her nursing home...

Wednesday, November 27, 2013 - 7:28am

’Tis the season for ... Wait. It’s already here?

How did this happen already?

It seems like yesterday I was trying to pull (transparent) hair from the top of my head to make everything come together in time for Christmas, and now I look at my calendar and Thanksgiving is next week? Did I...

Wednesday, November 20, 2013 - 11:50am

I have a 55-pound, semi-hibernating nemesis

It’s official. I have a nemesis.

Over the years, I have romanticized the notion of having a “nemesis” to call my own. You know, that one individual you are in constant conflict with, and drives you to both achieve new heights, and also be...

Wednesday, November 13, 2013 - 1:50pm

The blame game must have some rules to it

So, I was flipping channels on the television the other night, hoping I would find underwater dwarf wrestling or somebody playing a pan flute while juggling plates, and I settled on yet another drama that I catch from time to time, but have never...

Thursday, November 7, 2013 - 10:17am

Sports are great, but there’s a lot I still miss

A few weeks ago I was going to type out a column on this being the greatest time of the year for sports fans — college and professional football in full swing, the baseball playoffs underway, hockey back on the ice and the NBA getting ready to...

Thursday, October 31, 2013 - 9:34am

Reaching out to my readers in a time of need

I had a pretty clever column planned out this week, on the smorgasbord of sports entertainment available to us fanatics this time of year, but I was greeted with news Wednesday morning that kind of threw things into disarray for me.


Thursday, October 17, 2013 - 7:04am

Young boy defies the odds and enjoys a trip

Children do have a tendency to wander, don’t they?

Spend a little time on the Bethany Beach Boardwalk one warm summer evening and it is inevitable that you will see a kid strolling alone, eyes moving quickly from one side to another with...

Thursday, October 10, 2013 - 7:43am

The end of a glorious chapter in television

Like many Americans recently, my heart has been torn a bit over recent events. You find yourself eventually getting to a point of frustration, anger, resentment, sadness and despair, all wrapped up in one fleshy ball of humanity. Where do we turn...

Thursday, October 3, 2013 - 10:22am

Now there’s a whole new Halloween fright

There’s always something about the Halloween season that has appealed to me.

Perhaps it’s simply a matter of timing, as fall is my favorite season of the year. There’s something about that crisp air hitting me in the face, the leaves...

Wednesday, September 25, 2013 - 3:23pm

Howard one of our underappreciated icons

With a firm grip on my bowl of ice cream, and my other hand deftly navigating my television with my trusted remote control, I found myself stopping my channel-surfing a few nights ago to catch a commercial for a new movie centered on race cars....

Thursday, September 19, 2013 - 5:29am

Football’s hidden allure can be found in fantasy

It all really started last Thursday night ...

I was sitting on my couch decked out in my Torrey Smith jersey and preparing for my beloved Baltimore Ravens to start off their season with a nationally-televised game against the Denver...

Thursday, September 12, 2013 - 9:17am

Some historical info can turn your stomach

I get some slightly odd addictions from time to time.

For instance, there was a period in my life when I was fascinated by the aquaduct system created in ancient Rome. I read every piece of information I could find on the subject, watched...

Thursday, September 5, 2013 - 10:29am

More new words for us to embrace or trash

I love the English language.

Well, “love” may not be the right word, actually. Let’s say I am “fascinated” by the English language. It is that spotted dog in the kennel with different colored eyes and a tail that doesn’t quite fit any...

Thursday, August 29, 2013 - 6:10am

Criminal behavior ranges from smart to insane

Years ago, when my head was a little more full of hair and my belly a little less full of belly, I was a police reporter. We called it the “cops and courts” beat, and one of the most rewarding parts of the job was following a case from the time...

Thursday, August 22, 2013 - 7:18am

Some people leave their mark on you over time

When February rolls around this winter, and the coats are getting heavier and the days a little shorter, our little beach paper will be celebrating its 10th birthday.

In some ways, that astounds me. It only seems like yesterday when Susan...

Wednesday, August 14, 2013 - 1:35pm

The forgotten danger zone -- navigating roads

We are a nation that is consistently looking around corners with craned necks to see where the next potential danger might lurk.

“Stranger danger” is something that is preached to our children, hoping they learn the potential...

Wednesday, August 7, 2013 - 3:49pm

What they put in food really bugs some folks

Those of you unfortunate enough to know me very well understand that I have a few, let’s say, “quirks.”

For instance, I never eat birthday cake because I once saw spittle fly from the mouth of a child who was blowing out the...

Thursday, August 1, 2013 - 7:17am

Live the life you are living -- not another's

There are times when I openly weep for this big rock we live on called Earth.

Now, don’t start chiming in with your political rhetoric about our president or griping about what Rush Limbaugh said that got your hair on fire. I’m...

Thursday, July 25, 2013 - 7:39am

A time to reflect on who I am — or, watch TV

So, I’ve been spending a lot of time with myself over the last month with this broken foot tying me to my couch. A friend told me that I should use this time to really get to know myself, and see it as a blessing of an opportunity for self-...

Thursday, July 18, 2013 - 7:04am

Poor fan behavior continues to grow all over

There’s something extraordinary about sitting outside on a sunny day with a hot dog in hand while the crack of a bat hitting a baseball or softball fills the air.

For me, it could be a Major League Baseball game, Little League...

Thursday, July 11, 2013 - 8:29am

We all tend to be afraid of something in life

We all have things that scare us, right?

I have a friend I was in the Marine Corps with — mountain of a man, really — who was terrified of ants. The guy could live in the woods for a month with only his combat knife and a canteen...

Thursday, July 4, 2013 - 5:37am

One small step for man, one giant step ... back

I love summer.

I love sitting outside with friends and picking crabs and drinking cold beer on a hot day, or taking off camping for a few days and sitting by a campfire at night telling stories or simply enjoying the near-hypnotic...

Thursday, June 27, 2013 - 8:35am

Ocean View leadership looking very strong now

Once again, a concerned group of Ocean View residents took their complaints with the town to the Town Council this week. We have seen this show before — ranging from complaints about the police chief to complaints that the chief is not getting...

Wednesday, June 12, 2013 - 3:24pm

Another humbling experience at tournament

There have been moments in my life when I have been accused of talking a bit ... vociferously.

Since I was a little kid chucking basketballs from between my legs at an iron hoop, there has typically been a torrent of trash-talk...

Wednesday, June 12, 2013 - 3:22pm

We are living in 'the good ol' days' right now

There is no doubt we live in turbulent times.

We live in near-constant fear of terrorism attacks, a delicate global economy, escalating costs of college tuition that can strangle a family trying to get their children an education...

Thursday, June 6, 2013 - 6:58am

Coming to realization that hard drive is full

It would seem that my hard drive is in need of an upgrade. Or, at the very least, someone to get in there and clean it up to get me more memory.

No, I’m not talking about my computer needing a simple touch-up today. This is about...

Thursday, May 30, 2013 - 8:00am